Ich mag dich küssen

Ich mag dich küssen
This is what I have recently learnt in German, it means “I like kissing you”.

Indeed kissing –I mean here, French kissing- is such a fabulous human act. I am not really sure if humans are the only creatures who can kiss. May be some animals do kiss in their own why.

Kissing needs a decision to be made, a decision to surrender to the other person.
It changes the dynamics of any relationship between two people. Kissing becomes the only tool of communication when words fail to express feelings and emotions.
Those moments can take any relationship to a different level, building eternal memories. The first kiss is supposed to last with the person forever. We all remember with whom we had our first kiss, to whom we have showed our first intense feelings.

In the old history, it was believed that a kiss unites the two souls in one, because the spirit was said to be carried in one's breath. Poets and novelists wrote and still write about the intensity of kissing, there are countless chapters and verses describing one stolen kiss between two lovers.

One of the definitions of kissing is: “Kissing is a physical expression of deep affection or love between two people, in which the sensations of touch, taste, and smell are involved”. I believe that kissing is as enjoyable as sex- I know some would disagree with me, but of course referring here to great sex, not the kind of satisfying a desire only -there is a lot of meaning in kissing, yet sex is absolutely important for a healthy relationship, but it all starts with a kiss. Just like a good dance, you can tell from the very fist steps.

Back to the excellent German kisser; this Chinese quote sums it all up: “Kissing is like drinking salted water: you drink and your thirst increases” this is how I exactly feel.

I am not an expert on how relationships develop after sometime, I mean here long term relations; or relations that would last for more than 2 years…I really wonder if couples would still enjoy kissing each other? Do they feel the urge of wanting more kisses? Does a kiss cool a heated discussion? Does a kiss make up their day? Do they have any injuries from over kissing????

There are kisses which will stay with us, in our hearts forever. Just remembering those kisses, or living back in that moment fills our hearts with an indescribable feeling. A feeling of happiness; of ecstasy; of never wanting to leave that moment, you just want to be there forever, especially when you are deeply in love with person or you are extremely attracted to each other.

I must confess here, just not too long ago, I had the kiss that I have been waiting for so long…even though it caused a bit of funny complications, but the outcome was amazing because I do write Arabic poetry, and after that kiss, I have written 25 poems just describing that feeling…that real kiss.

If kissing is a human act… why don’t we enjoy this act to the maximum…

I always say that, sex, wine and chocolate are God’s blessings to human being…

I am also adding “Kissing” is the Greatest Blessing… of all…


Aurora