I am honestly a person who gave second and third chances to many people in my life, family members, friends, co workers and lovers. I do believe in second chances. We are all humans, we make mistakes, and we misjudge, miscommunicate and misinterpret many things all the time with different people.
Forgiveness is like Gold, it lasts forever… comes directly from the heart and can make everybody happy, content and proud.
I recently met a lovely lady, I will call her Imeon because this is her favorite name, she instantly became part of my life, and we perfectly connected. She is a good looking, smart and determined woman. Imeon and I have so many things in common, but what we strongly share is that both of us have dropt a whole life for the sake of love. It might seem to so many that it’s ok for a woman to abolish her life in order to be with the one she loves, but we are not in the beginning of the 19th century anymore; women and men are almost equal nowadays; of course I am talking here about professional equality, not social, we are still very behind in this area, regardless of what so many may claim, we are so prejudice with divorced single moms, even with single women in their 30s or 40s, we still think twice if we should hire a lady in her early 30s who has a boyfriend, in case she decides to get married and have children in the future, or a newly wedded woman, who might get pregnant. But when an accomplished woman decides to abolish her life for the sake of love, this is something so important to be considered. It is as if giving up your freedom and independence and accepting to go to jail voluntary, well we can consider it a sweet jail, but indeed… not at all times
Imeon used to be a well established lawyer in her city, decided to follow her heart and go with the flow… to live a real love story, an emotional adventure. We, the women, we all seek to live a true love story that would be crowned in the future with a nice wedding party and few children in the coming years. I am sorry if some women would pretend that they can or live differently, but deep inside of each one of us, we all want to become mothers and wedded wives, and regardless of our high professional rank or achievements… we are the womb of the Earth.
Imeon had a worse Tsunami than mine, ended up with emotional wounds. So she again lived in a luggage, left her country and started all over a new life, with hopes that this time she will succeed regardless the pain she has deep inside. Few months later, Imeon met Mikki, a handsome entrepreneur chef, who also had his share of pain and disappointment in love. They clicked, they found s resort of heaven in each other… for Imeon, whom her heart was shut, the sun of a new love started crawling slowly, drawing a lovely smile on her beautiful face, covering her with the warm feeling of love and being loved. For the second time in her life she decided to give in for the power of love. Imeon and Mikki decided to partner and have their own little restaurant, a place you feel love in every corner. Now, they have been together for 3 years. We were having one of those dinners that you won’t forget in your lifefew days ago, and they both were explaining to me that they have decided to get married, so I got all excited and started hugging them, but they both said, well not soon, when they will both be in their 60s, because marriage is not the beginning…. It is the destination… in the meantime… they want to enjoy the journey… and be grateful for having this second chance.
As per a good friend of mine, he said that we women intend to build our relationships on potential… I cannot but agree with you my dear friend… because if we weren’t so, no second or third chances would have ever been possible. … No love would have ever seen the light…
I am definitely inspired by Imeon and Mikki… being open to love and be loved… adventurous and willing to do your best for the sake of love… yet … when this happens … I urge you men (Adams) to appreciate it… never take it for granted… reciprocate it, respect it, be willing to give from your heart, and most importantly be committed even without the religious commitment… seize the journey….
Imeon, all what I would like to tell you that the essence of a woman’s power lays in her heart… although we went through terrible Tsunamis… our hearts remain as priceless as diamonds…waiting to be placed on the most giving and worthy crown.
Aurora
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